FTP: when EPSV gets a 229 but fails to connect, retry with PASV

This is a regression as this logic used to work. It isn't clear when it
broke, but I'm assuming in 7.28.0 when we went all-multi internally.

This likely never worked with the multi interface. As the failed
connection is detected once the multi state has reached DO_MORE, the
Curl_do_more() function was now expanded somewhat so that the
ftp_do_more() function can request to go "back" to the previous state
when it makes another attempt - using PASV.

Added test case 1233 to verify this fix. It has the little issue that it
assumes no service is listening/accepting connections on port 1...

Reported-by: byte_bucket in the #curl IRC channel