Address WPACKET review comments

A few style tweaks here and there. The main change is that curr and
packet_len are now offsets into the buffer to account for the fact that
the pointers can change if the buffer grows. Also dropped support for the
WPACKET_set_packet_len() function. I thought that was going to be needed
but so far it hasn't been. It doesn't really work any more due to the
offsets change.

Reviewed-by: Rich Salz <rsalz@openssl.org>