Provide a function to test whether we have unread records pending

Also updates SSL_has_pending() to use it. This actually fixes a bug in
SSL_has_pending() which is supposed to return 1 if we have any processed
or unprocessed data sitting in OpenSSL buffers. However it failed to return
1 if we had processed non-application data pending.

Reviewed-by: Rich Salz <rsalz@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/2875)
(cherry picked from commit b8c49611)