doc: Add missing options in s_{server,client}

These were added to the help in ad775e04

 but not the pods.

Reviewed-by: Richard Levitte <levitte@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Matt Caswell <matt@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/3065)
(cherry picked from commit 254b58fd)