Move ServerHello extension construction into the new extensions framework

This lays the foundation for a later move to have the extensions built and
placed into the correct message for TLSv1.3 (e.g. ServerHello or
EncryptedExtensions).

Perl changes reviewed by Richard Levitte. Non-perl changes reviewed by Rich
Salz

Reviewed-by: Rich Salz <rsalz@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Richard Levitte <levitte@openssl.org>