Don't negotiate TLSv1.3 if our EC cert isn't TLSv1.3 capable

TLSv1.3 is more restrictive about the curve used. There must be a matching
sig alg defined for that curve. Therefore if we are using some other curve
in our certificate then we should not negotiate TLSv1.3.

Fixes #7435

Reviewed-by: Viktor Dukhovni <viktor@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/7442)

(cherry picked from commit de4dc598024fd0a9c2b7a466fd5323755d369522)