Correct the checks of module availability in provider test programs

Previously, the macro OPENSSL_NO_SHARED was defined of the test/p_test
module wasn't built, but the provider test programs didn't check that
macro.  We rename it to OPENSSL_NO_MODULE, since that name describes
the situation more than OPENSSL_NO_SHARED does, and use it.

Reviewed-by: Paul Dale <paul.dale@oracle.com>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/8623)