Make sure SSL_in_init() returns 0 at SSL_CB_HANDSHAKE_DONE

In 1.1.0 and before calling SSL_in_init() from the info_callback
at SSL_CB_HANDSHAKE_DONE would return 0. This commit fixes it so
that it does again for 1.1.1. This broke Node.

Fixes #4574

Reviewed-by: Rich Salz <rsalz@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/6019)