BIO_lookup_ex: Retry with AI_ADDRCONFIG cleared if getaddrinfo fails

The lookup for ::1 with getaddrinfo() might return error even if
the ::1 would work if AI_ADDRCONFIG flag is used.

Fixes: #9053

Reviewed-by: Richard Levitte <levitte@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/9108)