Use memset to clear SRP_CTX instead of NULL and zero assignments

This uses memset() to clear all of the SRP_CTX when free'ing or
initializing it as well as in error paths instead of having a series
of NULL and zero assignments as it is safer.

It also changes SSL_SRP_CTX_init() to reset all the SRP_CTX to zero
in case or error, previously it could retain pointers to freed
memory, potentially leading to a double free.

Reviewed-by: Rich Salz <rsalz@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Matt Caswell <matt@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/3467)