sets the required HAVE_xx defines for non-DOS/Win targets.

BTW. Used eclipse IDE fo this, which really kicks ass.

Basically in loops like handle_errors(), 'query->next' was assigned a local
variable and then query was referenced after the memory was freed by
next_server(). I've changed that so next_server() and end_query() returns the
next query. So callers should use this ret-value.

The next problem was that 'server->tcp_buffer_pos' had a random value at entry
to 1st recv() (luckily causing Winsock to return ENOBUFS).

I've also added a ares_writev() for Windows to streamline the code
a bit more.

get problems

  check for ssize_t to make it possible to use that when receiving the send()
  error code. This is necessary to prevent compiler warnings on some systems.

- Made configure create config.h, and all source files now include setup.h that
  might include the proper config.h (or a handicrafted alternative).

- Switched to 'ares_socket_t' type for sockets in ares, since Windows don't
  use 'int' for that.

- automake-ified and libool-ified c-ares. Now it builds libcares as a shared
  lib on most platforms if wanted. (This bloated the size of the release
  archive with another 200K!)

- Makefile.am now uses Makefile.inc for the c sources, h headers and man
  pages, to make it easier for other makefiles to use the exact same set of
  files.

- Adjusted 'maketgz' to use the new automake magic when building distribution
  archives.

Windows.

we can compare if non-NULL elsewhere