This is necessary in case the client never connects or somehow fails to do
it timely. The timeout used now is only 2 seconds, which might cause problems
on really slow hosts but longer times are painful when doing torture testing
on FTP test cases.

I'm not sure how this 'alarm' functionality works on Windows or other systems
that don't actually have the alarm() function.

memory leak detection

some (SSL-)options.

we now use it to provide more info back on connect failures.

Also made -t imply -n to disable valgrind, it runs sloooow otherwise.

This now manages to run all tests OK up to test case 100 (the first FTP one)
for me.

system thinks free(NULL) is badness)

take a CURLcode as a second argument, that is non-zero when Curl_done()
is called after an error was returned from Curl_do() (or similar).

to deliver