as appropriate for platforms that don't have autotools support

HAVE_GETNAMEINFO, GETNAMEINFO_QUAL_ARG1, GETNAMEINFO_TYPE_ARG1, GETNAMEINFO_TYPE_ARG2, GETNAMEINFO_TYPE_ARG46, GETNAMEINFO_TYPE_ARG7

HAVE_RECV, RECV_TYPE_ARG1, RECV_TYPE_ARG2, RECV_TYPE_ARG3, RECV_TYPE_ARG4, RECV_TYPE_RETV

HAVE_SEND, SEND_TYPE_ARG1, SEND_TYPE_ARG2, SEND_TYPE_ARG3, SEND_TYPE_ARG4, SEND_TYPE_RETV

the correct dynamic library names by default, and provides override switches
--with-ldap-lib, --with-lber-lib and --without-lber-lib.  Added
CURL_DISABLE_LDAP to platform-specific config files to disable LDAP
support on those platforms that probably don't have dynamic OpenLDAP
libraries available to avoid compile errors.