so we need to hack around it when not there

the initial connect to "come through".

This should work fine for connect and for FTP-PASV connects. Needs massive
testing.

output. -v does not do that

the easy interface, it CANNOT be used by a mixture.

addresses

of time!

ones themselves if they need to prevent this.

It now uses the local IP adress of the control connection.

include sys/time.h as well