tool_operate: Fix --remote-time incorrect times on Windows

- Use Windows API SetFileTime to set the file time instead of utime.

Avoid utime on Windows if possible because it may apply a daylight
saving time offset to our UTC file time.

Bug: https://curl.haxx.se/mail/archive-2016-11/0033.html
Reported-by: Tim

Closes https://github.com/curl/curl/pull/1121