POP3: fix end of body detection

Curl_pop3_write() now has a state machine that scans for the end of a
POP3 body so that the CR LF '.' CR LF sequence can come in everything
from one up to five subsequent packets.

Test case 810 is modified to use SLOWDOWN which makes the server pause
between each single byte and thus makes the POP3 body get sent to curl
basically one byte at a time.