CURLOPT_CONNECT_TO: Skip non-matching "connect-to" entries properly

If a port number in a "connect-to" entry does not match, skip this
entry instead of connecting to port 0.

If a port number in a "connect-to" entry matches, use this entry
and look no further.

Reported-by: Jay Satiro
Assisted-by: Jay Satiro, Daniel Stenberg

Closes #1148