lib/connect: restrict IP/TCP options to said sockets

This patch prepares for adding UNIX domain sockets support.

TCP_NODELAY and TCP_KEEPALIVE are specific to TCP/IP sockets, so do not
apply these to other socket types. bindlocal only works for IP sockets
(independent of TCP/UDP), so filter that out too for other types.

Signed-off-by: Peter Wu <peter@lekensteyn.nl>