ntlm: use strict order for SSL backend #if branches

With the recently introduced MultiSSL support multiple SSL backends
can be compiled into cURL That means that now the order of the SSL

One option would be to use the same SSL backend as was configured
via `curl_global_sslset()`, however, NTLMv2 support would appear
to be available only with some SSL backends. For example, when
eb88d778 (ntlm: Use Windows Crypt API, 2014-12-02) introduced
support for NTLMv1 using Windows' Crypt API, it specifically did
*not* introduce NTLMv2 support using Crypt API at the same time.

So let's select one specific SSL backend for NTLM support when
compiled with multiple SSL backends, using a priority order such
that we support NTLMv2 even if only one compiled-in SSL backend can
be used for that.

Ref: https://github.com/curl/curl/pull/1848