imap: change from "FETCH" to "UID FETCH"

... and add "MAILINDEX".

As described in #2789, this is a suggested solution.  Changing UID=xx to
actually get mail with UID xx and add "MAILINDEX" to get a mail with a
special index in the mail box (old behavior).  So MAILINDEX=1 gives the
first non deleted mail in the mail box.

Fixes #2789
Closes #2815