build-wolfssl: Sync config with wolfSSL 3.10

wolfSSL configure script relevant changes from 3.9 to 3.10:

- DES3 no longer enabled by default
- Shamir no longer enabled by default
- Extended master secret enabled by default
- RSA and ECC timing protections enabled by default

For backwards compatibility I enabled DES3 and ECC shamir config options
(ie no change from 3.9), and the other changes are included.