multi: inform about closed sockets before they are closed

When the connection code decides to close a socket it informs the multi
system via the Curl_multi_closed function. The multi system may, in
turn, invoke the CURLMOPT_SOCKETFUNCTION function with
CURL_POLL_REMOVE. This happens after the socket has already been
closed. Reorder the code so that CURL_POLL_REMOVE is called before the
socket is closed.