VMS: fix and generate the VMS build config

config_h.com is a new file that generates a config.h file based on the
curl_config.h.in file and a quick scan of the configure script.  This is
actually a generic procedure that is shared with other VMS packages.

The existing pre-built config-vms.h had over 100 entries that were not
correct and in some cases conflicted with the build options available in
the build_vms.com.

generate_config_vms_h_curl.com is a helper procedure to the
config_h.com.  It covers the cases that the generic config_h.com is not
able to figure out, and accepts input from the build_vms.com procedure.

build_curlbuild_h.com is a new file to generate the curlbuild.h file
that Curl is now using when it is using a curl_config.h file.

post-config-vms.h is a new file that is needed to provide VMS specific
definitions, and most of them need to be set before the system header
files are included.

The VMS build procedure is fixed:

   1. Fixed to link in the correct HP ssl library.
   2. Fixed to...