mod_ssl: Pass the server_rec to ssl_die() and use it to log a message to

the main error log, pointing to the appropriate virtual host error log.

Backport of r1348660 from trunk.

Submitted by: sf
Reviewed by: rjung, covener
Backported by: rjung


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