Perform all per-LDAP-backend related memory allocations in a standalone pool,

provide a local method to completely remove an LDAP backend connection so
we can someday manage/dispose of extra connections in a reasonable way.

Clarify some commentary around the existing murky close/cleanup API
methods.

Minor bump for new members appended to util_ldap_connection_t, which is not
allocated by consumers of the API.



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