Reduced timeout on lingering close, removed possibility of a blocked

read causing the child to hang, and stopped logging of errors if
the socket is not connected (reset by client).  This might be only a
stopgap measure until we can rethink the accept logic.

Reviewed by: Jim Jagielski, Marc Slemko


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