Win32: First cut at new shutdown/restart logic. The key new feature here is

the use of CancelIo on the listen socket. Threads can only cancel
their own I/O. To enable use of this nifty feature, I needed to make
sure only one thread ever initiated async I/O. So, if the workers
detect that they need more completion contexts (async AcceptExes),
they set the maintenance_event, which directs the control thread to
do the work on behalf of the workers. Most of the other changes are
to support this end.


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