mpm_winnt: Avoid using TerminateThread() in case the shutdown routine

hits a timeout while waiting for the worker threads to exit.

Using TerminateThread() can have dangerous consequences such as deadlocks —
say, if the the thread is terminated while holding a lock or a heap lock
in the middle of HeapAlloc(), as these locks would not be released.
Or it can corrupt the application state and cause a crash.

(See https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/windows/desktop/ms686717)

Rework the code to call TerminateProcess() in the described circumstances
and leave the cleanup to the operating system.


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