Merge r1601291, r1601630 from trunk:

mod_proxy: Shutdown (eg. SSL close notify) the backend connection
before closing.


mod_proxy: follow up to r1601291.

Since deferred_write_pool is needed by the core_output_filter and is a subpool
of the connection, shutdown in a pre_cleanup of the connection's pool to avoid
a freed memory access (SEGV).

Reported By: takashi

Submitted by: ylavic
Reviewed/backported by: jim


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