check the pod in the child at a different spot so that we check it

when we get a new connection; we were (essentially) never checking it
before

we check it when weird errors occur too but that shouldn't matter


git-svn-id: https://svn.apache.org/repos/asf/httpd/httpd/trunk@89295 13f79535-47bb-0310-9956-ffa450edef68