Don't create a listener thread until we have a worker thread.  Otherwise,
in situations where we'll have to wait a while to take over scoreboard
slots from a previous generation, we'll be accepting connections we can't
process yet.

Don't let the listener thread clobber the scoreboard entry of the first
worker thread.


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