Add a BIO_lookup_ex() function

The existing BIO_lookup() wraps a call to getaddrinfo and provides an
abstracted capability to lookup addresses based on socket type and family.
However it provides no ability to lookup based on protocol. Normally,
when dealing with TCP/UDP this is not required. However getaddrinfo (at
least on linux) never returns SCTP addresses unless you specifically ask
for them in the protocol field. Therefore BIO_lookup_ex() is added which
provides the protocol field.

Reviewed-by: Richard Levitte <levitte@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/3286)