Fix ex_data and session_dup issues

Code was added in commit b3c31a65

 that overwrote the last ex_data value
using CRYPTO_dup_ex_data() causing a memory leak, and potentially
confusing the ex_data dup() callback.

In ssl_session_dup(), fix error handling (properly reference and up-ref
shared data) and new-up the ex_data before calling CRYPTO_dup_ex_data();
all other structures that dup ex_data have the destination ex_data new'd
before the dup.

Fix up some of the ex_data documentation.

Reviewed-by: Matt Caswell <matt@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Rich Salz <rsalz@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/3323)