Update the s_client -sess_out feature to work for TLSv1.3

Previously "-sess_out" wrote out the session as soon as the handshake
finished. In TLSv1.3 this won't work because the NewSessionTicket message
arrives post-handshake. Instead we use the session callback mechanism to
do this.

Reviewed-by: Rich Salz <rsalz@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/2259)