add an additional async notification communication method based on callback

Reviewed-by: Matt Caswell <matt@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Paul Yang <yang.yang@baishancloud.com>
Signed-off-by: Ping Yu <ping.yu@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Steven Linsell <stevenx.linsell@intel.com>

(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/7573)