Restore sensible "sess_accept" counter tracking

Commit 9ef9088c

 switched the SSL/SSL_CTX
statistics counters to using Thread-Sanitizer-friendly primitives.
However, it erroneously converted an addition of -1
(for s->session_ctx->stats.sess_accept) to an addition of +1, since that
is the only counter API provided by the internal tsan_assist.h header
until the previous commit.  This means that for each accepted (initial)
connection, the session_ctx's counter would get doubly incremented, and the
(switched) ctx's counter would also get incremented.

Restore the counter decrement so that each accepted connection increments
exactly one counter exactly once (in net effect).

Reviewed-by: Paul Dale <paul.dale@oracle.com>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/7464)

(cherry picked from commit 2aaa0b146b967397a6e61fa8df969e7847f82086)