openssl: set up hooks with to perform NPN

NPN is what is available in the wild today to negotiate SPDY or HTTP/2.0
connections. It is expected to be replaced by ALPN in the future. If
HTTP/2.0 is negotiated, this is indicated for the entire connection and
http.c is expected to initialize itself for HTTP/2.0 instead of
HTTP/1.1.

see:
http://technotes.googlecode.com/git/nextprotoneg.html
http://tools.ietf.org/html/draft-ietf-tls-applayerprotoneg-04