Test _NMAKE_VER define to determine nmake -nologo behavior,
  and use $(MAKEOPT) -f syntax throughout to avoid problems
  on mingw, borland, etc.

Backport 357226 from trunk
Claiming platform maintainer privs to just fix this for VS2005



git-svn-id: https://svn.apache.org/repos/asf/httpd/httpd/branches/2.0.x@357228 13f79535-47bb-0310-9956-ffa450edef68