output number of exts from tls_collect_extensions()

Modify the API of tls_collect_extensions() to be able to output the number of
extensions that are known (i.e., the length of its 'res' output).  This number
can never be zero on a successful return due to the builtin extensions list,
but use a separate output variable so as to not overload the return value
semantics.

Having this value easily available will give consumers a way to avoid repeating
the calculation.

Reviewed-by: Matt Caswell <matt@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Richard Levitte <levitte@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/2279)