When generating a private key, try to make the output file be readable
only by the owner.  Put it in CHANGES file since it might be noticeable.

Add "int private" flag to apps that write private keys, and check that it's
set whenever we do write a private key.  Checked via assert so that this
bug (security-related) gets fixed.  Thanks to Viktor for help in tracing
the code-paths where private keys are written.

Reviewed-by: Viktor Dukhovni <viktor@openssl.org>